Beter A Real Friend Than A Girlfriend Who Was Cheating, Definition Of A Real Friend(In My Opinion) 1. She Or He Understands You. 2. She Or He Cheers You Up When You're Sad. 3. When Your Friend Has No Money, But You Wanna Do Something With He Or She, You Pay For Him/She Without Asking You Money Back. 4. Your Friend Loves Your Jokes And Humour.